Mom over spends, overdraws her checking and allows others to use her debit card. I'd like to help her manage her spending without having to take over or "take away" her ability to be in charge of her finances. It is after all her money. I saw a product online that seemed like it would meet our needs but now can't find the links for it.
Shay
He didn't want to spend more than $300 per month - so this satisfied him as he realized he had spent money and would have to wait until next month for more.
Also, stopped "friend" who was hitting him up for money from getting anything.
Seems $300 was "chump change" for this "friend" so disappeared when that's all there was.
But, if relatives and others are using her card, that's a crime. It's called exploitation. Are you facilitating it by not putting a stop to it? I don't know, but I would be concerned about it.