My grandad when he falls ill or has any thoughts/ dreams about death often has erratic episodes where by he can become quite verbally aggressive and often works him self up. This seems to be a pattern and is worse whenever he thinks about death, we know he has severe anxiety about the fear of dying and death itself, but what is the best way to take care of him when he gets in to these aggressive episodes?
Sorry to hear about your granddad's episode. Please talk to his doctor about what treatment options might work. I'm not sure if a psychologist might help in the case. Or maybe consider different meds that might help. I know its hard to see our parents and grandparents age and face these challenges.