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My caregiver and I ran into a stall with bars missing and too small to transfer. We had been told there is more room in the women's restroom, can we use it? On another time there was no wheel chair stall in men's but women's full accessible then what?

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It really depends on the individual situation.

You could approach management and they could make sure the bathroom is not occupied.

Then management could guard the entrance so no women could enter, then it isn’t a problem.This is a temporary solution.

Don’t hesitate to tell management you would very much appreciate the men’s room to be furnished with the necessary equipment to suit your needs.
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You need to file a complaint with the store(s) or facilities that are not complying with ADA bathroom requirements. This is the course of action that you should be taking.
NOT imposing on others rights to modesty and privacy.

Personally I don't think that it is okay for 2 grown men to go into a women's restroom. Your rights do not supercede my rights and I would definitely call the police on a man that ended up in the women's restroom with a child.

NO! it is NOT okay for you to just use the women's restroom, PERIOD.

Obviously asking an employee to clear the bathroom and stand guard changes things but, you ask like you plan on just helping yourself and that is unacceptable.
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AlvaDeer Dec 2020
Yes, definitely a check first to have a female enter and be certain the facilities are empty; then ask that they remain at the door to notify the women that the facilities are currently occupied by a man of necessity. I am honestly surprised that there are too many businesses these days that don't understand ADA. There are lawyers that make a living doing nothing to ADA suits. It has unfortunately in some small towns with old buildings ended with there be facilities for NO ONE as the proprietors post "No Public Facilities". This can be done in most states in most establishments, tho often not in grocers or restaurants.
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Frankly, women wouldn't bat an eye -- we've seen everything. However, any place that you're running into with that issue is in violation of the ADA, and probably needs to be reported.
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AlvaDeer Dec 2020
Unfortunately, in most small times, the ADA rules have forced owners to close all bathroom facilities and simply post "No public facilities". Some businesses (grocers in some states) are not ALLOWED to do this. Most are.
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Check with store manager. Request someone to stand guard duty at door while you access and occupy the washroom.
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In the immediate situation, I would call for the nearest person in authority (manager, service assistant, whoever as long as they vaguely belong to the premises), get permission for you and your caregiver to enter the women's restroom to use the wheelchair accessible slot, and ask the member of staff to go in ahead of you and let any users in there know what was happening.

Once home, I would write to the company and tell them that if regulations/the ADA require them to provide wheelchair accessible restroom facilities, then those facilities have to be accessible to wheelchair users of any gender identity.
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It depends on state or city laws and ordinances. Transgender protections do not apply to everyone. You would be protected by ADA and should ask an employee or manager for accomodations.
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Yes, use the womans. But I would put a complaint in writing to the store. Stalls need to be in the mens room. That small one needs to be made bigger.
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I would.

If I was the caregiver (female) & no unisex accessible bathroom was provided, I would enter the ladies & as a courtesy, announce I had a male friend/client that needed the accessible toilet.

If I was a male caregiver, I might ask a female staff member to enter first & stand watch to explain.

Is this a cafe or other place with staff?
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Honestly, yes.

Women have been used to people identifying as trans for five years now in the restroom. I'm not here to bag on them as a class or hurt their feelings, but factually a lot of them look quite male and that's just not a question anyone asks about it.
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