My mother has problems close to dementia and she is quickly getting worse...she lives with her boyfriend who has her wait on him hand and foot and uses her to make my life hell I want to get her out of that situation and somewhere where she'll at least be given medical care which she isn't getting now because he doesn't want her to have it. But I've been told that if I put her in care that he can just come a long behind me and sign her back out...is this true?? Also I would go to court and get everything done legally but I just can't afford it...and her boyfriend has been getting her to do things to cause trouble for me for over half a year now...what can I do? to get this stopped and to get her out of there?
Someone had asked me in a different area if my mothers boyfriend has a POA and as far as I know he doesn't....But I do have a POA...i'm not sure if this helps or not....because if he tells her to sign something she will so if I were to put her into care and then he were to try and get her out and found out that all he needed was a POA all he would have to do is tell her to sign it and she would.
She has made her choice. You, on the other hand, are free to go, and you should. Move on with your life and let her move on with hers. Just let her know you are there for her if she needs you.
Is he physically keeping her from getting medical care? Is there something she needs to have treatment for? When you talked about putting her into care and him signing her back out, I am not sure what you meant. Do you mean putting her into assisted living or a nursing home? Please explain and someone may have some good advice.