She has dementia and is on a memory care home. I am her legal guardian. There is some retroactive payment which requires me to become a fiduciary for that. The form requires my mom's signature. I am her guardian due to incapacity. The VA elder attorney's assistant said my mother must sign it as VA does not recognize POA or guardianship. The guardian lawyer's assistant says that I sign it as guardian and include the court documents and my own lawyer (not a specialist in these matters) said he signed all of his dad's VA A&A paperwork as the POA. I am losing faith in all of these lawyers who have been very expensive. Any experiences from you all would be appreciated. My mom cannot write anymore, but she could do an X with witnesses. This will upset her though because she will get confused about not paying rent or where do I live, etc. thanks
That is what I get for being honest.