My mother has lost her ability to understand that I am her son and she thinks I am a boyfriend on some levels. She tells me that it's ok for us to be together and she has tried to touch me inappropriately and kiss me and when I rebuff her, she screams at me and "breaks up" with me. How do I handle this? She cannot grasp the concept that we are mother and son and she tells me she loves me and wants to have sex with me. I'm a mess and at a loss. Any advice?
To me, it's a sign that other people need to step in as a caregiver one way or another. If this is happening, and you need to perform intimate care tasks like toileting or dressing, things are going to become very bad quickly.
Talk to the doctor and report your observations. If there is no geriatric psychiatrist involved, GET ONE.
Kendireal - I would never make my daughter ever have to be around another older man again as long as I lived. I assume you weren't able to remove her from that conversation with granddad once it got going. Your poor baby! I hope she is getting some professional help with that. Bless her heart. This disease is a real monster. Confronting him would have gotten you nowhere most likely as he sounds like he had already lost too much cognitive ability.