Mom is in stage 5-6 Alz and is living in assisted living with my dad, who is also stage 6 alz. She is starting to cough a lot while eating. Today, the nurse told me she has started vomiting about every other day. This has been a problem for a while now with Mom, but the frequency is now increasing.
I've been trying to follow-up behind the nurses to make sure Mom is getting her teeth properly brushed and flossed, as the dentist warned me about her dental hygiene and plaque. But for the last several months, brushing has been getting really hard. When I brush the back or inside of her teeth, she gags. And sometimes/many times that turns it vomiting.
Has anyone had experience with this? What do I do? Do I give up on brushing? What does everyone do when their loved one gets to this point? I've read that gum infection and poor dental hygiene can be dangerous. I'm also having a hard time not throwing up myself when this happens. But I don't want to neglect her care. Also, will she start to lose weight from all this vomiting? She already is thin and frail.
Alz caregiving is so tough.
Your dentist is insane. Seriously your mother has stage 6 Alz I think worrying about plaque build up is ridiculous. Skip the flossing and try and brush her teeth as best as you can without making her puke.
But I agree!
They also have those soft disposable foam mouth swabs for comatose patients you could try . Yes Mom can lose weight from vomiting .
And as the others have already pointed out she needs a swallow evaluation ASAP, she almost certainly needs a modified diet.
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/dysphagia-how-to-help-a-loved-one-eat-and-drink-safely-187010.htm
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/swallowing-disorders-tips-for-using-food-and-beverage-thickeners-208048.htm
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My late husband(who had vascular dementia)had aspiration pneumonia and his doctor said because of his dementia that his brain was forgetting to tell his throat to close when he was eating or drinking, thus allowing it all to go into his lungs and not his stomach.
And yes my husband almost died from it and developed sepsis and septic shock leaving him completely bedridden and under hospice care for the last 22 months of his life. It's nothing to mess around with.
I would make sure that all of her foods are now pureed and her drinks thickened with the product Thick-It.
And as far as the brushing of her teeth goes, I personally wouldn't worry about it at this point as I think there comes a point as the disease of dementia progresses that one has to pick their battles carefully and I don't think brushing her teeth and making her vomit is a battle worth fighting at this point. Otherwise just get her front teeth best you can.
Please have your moms doctor order a swallowing test for her ASAP.
They are foam and very slightly ribbed so they can be used for any number of things.
Clearing food from the area between the gums and cheeks. (Many people begin "pocketing" food)
The swabs can be used to brush the teeth and the roof of the mouth. BUT if this causes her to gag and begin to vomit stop. Vomiting can lead to aspiration pneumonia.
And getting to the fact that she is vomiting...is she having problems swallowing liquids or is it food? If it is liquids they may have to be thickened. With dementia often the body can not close off the trachea when swallowing so food enters the lungs. I hope the food is being cut into pieces or possibly even pureed if needed.
I think at this point you no longer have to worry about dental hygiene.
I doubt that she would sit still or be compliant for any dental work anyway. (Heaven forbid that the dentist suggests pulling any teeth! Trying to care for mouth wounds, any wounds on someone with dementia is almost impossible without them picking, poking and doing all sorts of stuff. Not even going to get into anesthesia and dementia
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