I've got to get more involved w/ mom's care. Yesterday around 2:30 Mary mom's nurse called to say mom "saw" Dad in the living room of that place. They think it's either ANOTHER UTI or side effect from increased Exelon patch of 13 mg/24 hr. Now if they noticed this around 2 pm let's say WHY didn't they cal the doctor AT THAT TIME, draw labs, etc.? Instead they're waiting until this morning so the poor woman thinks we're picking her up this morning for Daddy's funeral!!!! She went through the ENTIRE night grieving for her husband!!! I hope it's just a fluke & the whole episode is over now...