She has urinary incontinence. I’ve tried the correct size, a larger size. The complaint is always they are too tight or when loose, they are riding up into her crotch area. She claims they’re unbearable.
Any suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thanks!
I found them by googling “Fabric Incontinence Briefs For Women”. Hope you can find something that helps.
This topic is an excellent reminder as to how we as mothers often overlook taking into consideration our babies comfort when it comes to diapering. We simply choose a diaper based on what's best for our own situation/needs, rather than what's best for baby.
Words from an older mom that put each and every one of her six children through safety pin cloth diapers and hot greenhouse, diaper rash inducing rubber pants.
Look into reusable adult diapers or adult nappies. These should be much more tolerable to use during the daytime and you could supplement them with an incontinence pad and/or waterproof pad in her chair. Try to get her to the bathroom more during the day and of course she would need to be changed more, but she'd still probably be more comfortable.
Check out a brand called Wellness Briefs.
I would try a pair yourself to see if it is real or psychological.