My dad had a massive stroke how can my mom get power of attorney if my dad is in a skilled nursing facility? They have been married for over 59 years. We don't know what to do. We cannot afford to pay for his care. Kaiser only pays 100 days. My mom cannot do anything with property without power of attorney
Have you talked to the SW at the NH? Much depends upon the laws of your state. Do you have a family lawyer?
If dad needs medicaid to be able to stay in the NH as a permanent resident, please know that the family home where mom resides does NOT have to be sold. You need to talk to a certified eldercare attorney who understands Medicaid in your state to figure out next steps.
I'm so sorry that you are going through this sad time.
About the POA. Your mom won't be able to get POA unless your dad regains his mental capacity. If he does and still can't use his hand to sign a document, there are ways to receive his agreement. Do not sign anything as a guarantor for your dad and don't allow your mom to. Please see a qualified elder attorney to protect your parents.
Consulting an attorney who specializes in Elder Law (the specialty is very important) will be worth the cost. Mistakes at this point can be costly.
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