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When I read the profile and saw that dad is living in Assisted Living I "assumed" that the "drug addicted sister" was/is living in the house that dad previously occupied. If this is incorrect Kalh58 let us know. As others have said more information is better. Much easier to get a more detailed, accurate response from some VERY wise members.
Hi, Get in touch with the department of aging, let them know what's going on and let them take it from there. You could also get a restraining order to keep her away from your father. What she is doing falls under the catagory of ABUSE! ALSO get some help for your sister. Praying for your family.
Kalh, this current thread could benefit from a wide variety of insights and answers, but as JoAnn pointed out, you didn't answer or respond to your first post. Did you read them? Have comments? Questions?
There's another similar thread here about removing a relative and answers about how to do that safely and legally.
The thread isn't on point, but it is similar. You might want to read that thread, and if you still have questions, post here, but it would help immensely as well as show courtesy and respect to respond to the other posters who took the time to study your situation and offer suggestions.
You can also use the search function (magnifying glass in blue to turquoise bar, immediately to the left of your avatar). I just searched. There are a few other threads similar to yours.
You have posted before but gave no response to questions asked. We can answer a lot better if you give us more info. In your profile you say Dad is in a independent living?
Do you mean by independent living a place for 55 and up. Is sister on the lease as a Caregiver? If not on the lease, did she just move in? Usually, places like this only allow the person/s on the lease to live there. So u may be able to talk to the landlord or property manager to have her evicted.
On ur profile u say Dad has had problems with a woman trying to get his money. Is Dad showing signs of Dementia? If so, Independent living is not where he should be. He should be in an Assist. Living if he can afford it or a Long-term care facility with Medicaid paying.
You have to file for eviction. This can be a long process. But if funds from the sale of the house are needed to help pay for his care it might be rushed but there are still timelines that have to be followed.
Is your dad competent to appear in court or is he physically able to appear in court? If not you may have to get a lawyer to represent him.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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As others have said more information is better. Much easier to get a more detailed, accurate response from some VERY wise members.
Kalh, this current thread could benefit from a wide variety of insights and answers, but as JoAnn pointed out, you didn't answer or respond to your first post. Did you read them? Have comments? Questions?
There's another similar thread here about removing a relative and answers about how to do that safely and legally.
The thread isn't on point, but it is similar. You might want to read that thread, and if you still have questions, post here, but it would help immensely as well as show courtesy and respect to respond to the other posters who took the time to study your situation and offer suggestions.
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/eviction-of-tenant-in-fathers-house-how-can-i-get-this-done-471020.htm?orderby=recent&page=1�
You can also use the search function (magnifying glass in blue to turquoise bar, immediately to the left of your avatar). I just searched. There are a few other threads similar to yours.
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/legal-authority-to-have-family-member-removed-from-mothers-home-184564.htm
https://www.agingcare.com/discussions/evict-family-member-caring-for-152896.htm
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/can-executor-of-will-evict-sister-175834.htm
You have posted before but gave no response to questions asked. We can answer a lot better if you give us more info. In your profile you say Dad is in a independent living?
Do you mean by independent living a place for 55 and up. Is sister on the lease as a Caregiver? If not on the lease, did she just move in? Usually, places like this only allow the person/s on the lease to live there. So u may be able to talk to the landlord or property manager to have her evicted.
On ur profile u say Dad has had problems with a woman trying to get his money. Is Dad showing signs of Dementia? If so, Independent living is not where he should be. He should be in an Assist. Living if he can afford it or a Long-term care facility with Medicaid paying.
Is your dad competent to appear in court or is he physically able to appear in court? If not you may have to get a lawyer to represent him.