Hi, my grandmother has stage 5 Parkinson's she was placed on Hospice in November. Recently she sleeps most of the time. She can’t move at all now even has a catheter placed. She does take sips of water and eats maybe about 2 bites of baby food (she can’t eat solids anymore). Her vitals are good. We did notice she has a stage 1 bedsore that is being treated. It’s really heart breaking seeing her in the condition she is. She moans almost all day. She has to squeeze our hands to answer our questions. My question is is any one going through something similar? Or if someone has gone through it how long can she live in this condition. Obviously we don’t want her to go, but the way she is living is not a good quality of life. Any advice or comment will help me in these moments thank you 🙏🏼
She's in the Lord's hands now. And you're right...no more pain and suffering.
May God comfort you and your family in this difficult time. Remember the good times as a tribute to her.
Thanks you everyone for your prayers. My grandmother had a very peaceful passing last night. Our hearts are torn and broken in to pieces, but she is not suffering no more pain. 🙏🏽
God bless and keep you and your family during this time.
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just wanted to give you all a update.
As of yesterday my grandmother did stop eating she spoke about two words. She is not even swallowing water now. Blood pressure is high we are giving her morphine every two hours due to irregular breathing at this time. Will keep you all posted.
As hard as it is, no one really knows. They wouldn't have allowed hospice if they didn't believe it was less than 6 months. That is one of the main considerations for hospice.
If she is not drinking or eating much that is usually a sign that the body is shutting down. Do not force anything, it is not comfortable for the patient to have undigested food and fluids in their stomach. As hard as that is to watch, it is the best for her.
May she pass peacefully and may your family receive grieving mercies.
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Again, I’m so sorry. Prayers and hugs to you all.