I’m not her caregiver but I’m at her house almost every day so I have to watch her pee in these coffee cups while in the kitchen which is absolutely unsanitary. Are there other options such as like sanitary pee jars?? (like the ones that are at the doctors except with no lid). She has to do this because she can’t stand to walk into the bathroom and a portable toilet is out of the question.
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Why would you have to watch what she is doing? Tell her she what she is doing is gross and unsanitary and leave. Full stop.
posting again, it sounds like not much been done to help Grandma and Grandpa. You said before that Grandma likes her wine. Does anyone know exactly how much she’s actually drinking?i know you said she hides the bottle under the sink, but if she’s doing her own shopping, she could be stashing bottles all over the house. Not only does it make you have to pee more, it’s not a healthy way to live. I know you said you’re not “allowed” to tell Grandpa she’s peeing in cups and jars, but you”think” he knows. I’d hope so since those cups and jars should be thrown away and not used for beverages.
Is your family being at all proactive about Grandma and Grandpa’s situation and their care? Who cares for them when the health aide isn’t there? They seem to need more help than 3 times a week.
You sound like a very loving and concerned granddaughter. I know how grossed out you must be about Grandma’s behavior. It’s not easy to watch someone who’s been there for you all your life deteriorate like this. You need to speak with your family about this. It’s quite possibly the “elephant in the room” and sometimes people just need a reality check.