He is nearly 77 and I am 80. I am finding it very hard. I am stressed all the time. He is verbally abusive most of the time. He won't wash or shower. He's in bed nearly all day. He's not eating much only goods. I can't cope much more. I have lost 2 stone.
The US health system is so much different than other countries. We have Medicaid here that helps with the cost of nursing home care. We have a few members from the UK one is Country Mouse. Its about 2:30 pm in the UK right now so CM is working. She will be on later.