It is so messy and he often has it everywhere in the bathroom. He forgets how to wipe, so he just pulls the Depends back up without wiping. But he doesn't want me in there. At the end of the day I have to clean him up every evening. He has gotten a nasty rash. I would love to be able to help him have a solid stool. I was wondering if some kind of fiber in the diet will help. My husband is allergic to psyllium husks which is in most fiber products. I know that Flax will bind you up. Can anyone advise about sprinkling that on his food?