My Husband says that I did not give him permission to walk without the walker also he says that he would like to go get the mail and take the trash out. He also says that he did not like paying the caregiver $780 and the other caregiver $520. He says that life is not worth living with the walker and wheelchair. Please answer me . Soon.
I am going to be honest here. First, you have a therapist you should be talking to. Second, I don't think you can handle your husband alone. I have asked before if you have any family, if so, you need to ask for help. Ask the aides you hired how you should handle him.
What would I do in this situation...I would allow him to do what he wants since he thinks he knows it all. When something happens again and he is in rehab, tell them you cannot care for him at home so he needs to be in an Assisted living or Longterm care. I would think that would be a better solution than worrying yourself to death when he is home.
You have a therapist, use him/her.