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What happened with the big meeting your DH was having with his brother?
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PeggySue2020 Nov 11, 2023
We had it via phone. The meeting with the in-laws is at 2 today.

How does an adopted kid not sleep under the same roof as her parent? Go to the district in which they sleep? How do you keep the other presumed legal parent from spending as much time with her when he is here? They have boundaries against the latter two because this kid isn’t yet adopted, that’s why. But she told you it was coming.
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PS hope you will update us on plans after the big meeting.
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PeggySue2020 Nov 11, 2023
The child sleeps over there five days a week. Her birth parents have enrolled her in their school for now. Cg has not brought up enrolling her there though if she asks they’ll say no. They’ve told cg that her husband must leave on Tuesday.

Theyve said there’s some tax guy taking out the 1099. And they are solid that they won’t be giving away inheritance.

So, for now, that’s the way it is.

Thats the end of it. Now here’s the vent.

My mil has had obsessions with fake grandchildren before. The time before it was a child whom the ils had helped their friends adopt, but there were never financial consequences.
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Peggy,

I really hope this situation can be reigned in. They really need to be removed from your in laws home all together. I can see how this could easily end up being a nightmare.

I can’t imagine how stressful this is for your husband. Hopefully, it will be settled and other arrangements can be made.
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