I live in Hawaii and my Mom lives in FL. She’s only 59 and is having a very hard time quitting smoking. Should I move closer to her to help her? She won’t leave the house at all. She only eats once per day. I’m scared and worried. Please advise if anyone has been in this situation and if so what should I expect and approximately when? Thanks 🙏
That said, nobody can predict how much time your mom has left to live. Not even her doctor. But you're right....any illness can definitely speed up her demise, so why not go to FL and spend time with her?
Wishing you the best of luck with a difficult situation
Limit contact. Save your emotions and energy.
Once you have a better understanding of moms prognosis, you can then address having Hospice come in as well if needed. Wishing you well, and remember that only God knows the day and time when He will call our loved ones home.
when she coughs it seems very painful for her. I’m afraid she will catch a cold and it will be an Exasperation which will land her in the hospital and will be very hard for her to recover.