My mother, 87 years old with dementia complains that she can not hear. I have taken her to the doctor, they do a hearing test and they say she is fine. No hearing aids are necessary. But when I speak to her she says she can not hear me. Anyone have the same problem or have suggestions?
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Try lowering the pitch of your voice and contrary to what you would think do not yell, yelling has a tendency to raise the pitch of the voice.
Look at your mom at eye level when talking to her. Let her see your face and read the expression you have that goes a long way in conveying what your words are saying.
Talk slowly, and distinctly, enunciate clearly.
I have read that it can take someone with dementia 30 to 40 seconds to hear then comprehend what was said and respond. In my world 45 seconds is a lifetime to wait for a reply. Give mom a bit of time to process your words.
Dementia can have an impact on the way a person interprets information, so their hearing may be fine, but they may find it difficult, or they may take longer, to work out what is being said to them. They may struggle to distinguish between multiple sounds or conversations. Loud or sudden noises may also startle or frighten them.
Speak to her in a deeper/lower tone of voice. Sometimes they have a hard time hearing high pitched sounds. Give it a try.........what have you got to lose? Make sure the background/room noise is at a MINIMUM also.........many people with dementia have a very hard time processing noise.
Good luck!
I will try what you suggest and see how it goes.
Thank you
Audiologist told me to always face her as she is really reading lips, even with the good hearing aids.
It is very hard to learn because the natural response is to raise your voice! (And when I raise my voice 'I' seem to think I am angry and feel frustrated so it has helped me to be more calm.
Dementia makes everything harder for her to understand. Sometimes it is not the hearing but the understanding.
Next, realize that lots of drugs have an effect on hearing. Have your mother's prescriptions changed recently? Look up "drugs that can damage hearing" to see a list of possible culprits, called ototoxic drugs. Even aspirin, certain antibiotics, lasix, or common antidepressants can be guilty! (here's one site: https://www.hearingaids.com/2018/03/06/the-common-medications-known-to-cause-hearing-loss/)
The antibiotic Vancomycin, for instance, causes damage to the tiny hairs in the inner ear, especially in elderly people. My "patient" went into sepsis and had to be on IV antibiotics (including Vancomycin) for four days. He then took another oral antibiotic (Cipro) for 12 days. By the end of that time, his hearing was practically gone! It has never come back.
This may not help your mother much, but the law has recently changed regarding hearing aids. In August, 2020, they will no longer have to be prescribed by a hearing aid professional and will be available over the counter. Even CVS, Walgreen's, and Costco will carry them! They won't be individualized, of course, but they will be far better than the amplifiers that are available today. You'll be able to adjust volume and range to better suit the situation. From what I understand, they will cost about $500.
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The following night the other ear.
I do (& suggest) one ear per night...so the person can hear out of the other ear. Its uncomfortable not to hear...lets face it
Also a lack of calcium causes the auditory bones (in addition to the skeletal bones) to become thinner, so sound does not vibrate as well. And therefore the person cannot hear as well.
Dr Christopher has a Herbal Calcium capsules. I give my grandpa 3 with each meal..6 days a week. rest 1 day
repeat. there are no side effects as they are 'whole foods' not drugs, or active ingredients of ...And it doesn't interfere or interact with medications they may be taking. .I buy them on amazon
I have done this to my Grandpa once a year for the last 2 years and it really helps his hearing. He turns 85 this year...he can hear really w
For your scenario try writing what you want to say on a white board it will make communication less stressful.
She sure can hear anything I don’t want her to hear even in the quietest whisper...
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