If your parent has caregiving hours from a caregiving company paid for by Medicaid, does anyone have the same problem I do with retension of the caregiving company's caregivers due to the caregivers' vacations, minimum hours they need to work, distance they need to drive to your household, poor pay from they receive from their company, and/or transcience and other obligations they may have. My father has had over 100 caregivers since he moved to my house in September, 2014 and I've been told if I could afford to pay private pay I wouldn't run into this same problem.
My "family" respected that I had a personal (and at the time, VERY stressful homelife). We spoke each Friday about the upcoming week, what was needed by the client and what was needed for me to be the sole caregiver at home to a very, very sick husband and also to a daughter who still lived at home.
They DID give me Christmas and birthday gifts and actually treated me as one of the family. That was not necessary, but it made me feel that I was cared about...and honestly, the pay was so bad, if they had been a difficult family I would have gone FT at my 2nd job.
You MUST respect the caregiver. But you must also do your own background checks and such. I was bonded by my company, but the fact that I was of the same religious background as my client and we actually knew a lot of the same people...didn't hurt. I told them to please, check me out.
Any problems that arose were dealt with swiftly and in a professional manner. I was not an 18 yo kid, I was a 50 yo woman with a lifetime of caregiving behind me.
Not to say the younger people have a disadvantage--but they did tend to be much less serious about their jobs, they'd talk on their phones all day...etc. My phone was OFF while I was at work. Maybe being older I had more respect for my client, I don't know. It just worked well for the family and for me for almost 2 years. I'm sure I'd still be with her if she hadn't declined to the point she could not live at home.
Sometimes it takes a long time to find that good fit. Hang in there.
I have had the same problem for about 10 years. I finally get it fixed more or less. It doesn’t matter who is paying. We had private pay. So here is what I recommend:
Find a local agency and ask about their turnover rate. Review their rating on the internet. Also ask the agency about hiring practices. Where and how they hire? If it’s a collage or school forget about them and find someone else. Why: Students schedules change at a maximum of every 3 months. Students also graduate and usually get better jobs. We have had many student caregivers and they all have left in a very short time. Find an agency that hires locally and people like housewives and retirees looking to supplement their income. They may not be as capable as someone younger but they will stay longer. Don’t be afraid to ask the agency to send someone else if they send someone who can’t do the job and be sure to let the agency know so they don’t send them to another client. Believe me the agency doesn’t know about these people.
If a care giver needs to be off for whatever reason ask how the agency will backfill for them. When this occurs don’t let the agency off the hook but be reasonable. Have then start early to find a backfill and make them send them to you to get them up to speed and yourself confident in them before they really need to be there for you.
Get the agency to train 2 or 3 care givers for backups before they are needed. Even if you have to add some hours to do this. It just gives you some peace of mind.
Once you get a care giver assigned to you, talk to them about their personal life. Are they taking care of any children? The more the less reliable they will be. If they are of school age they will most likely leave when the summer break starts. Married or single? If married ask about their spouse. Are they working and where? Try to determine if the marriage is stable or not. I have had care givers leave because the spouse got a new job and they were moving, they got devoiced or the spouse graduated and got a job somewhere else. Is the care giver taking any classes (a student)? Where are they are living and how far or long they have to drive to get to you. This is a big indicator of how long they are going to stay! Is the schedule OK for them? If not what would be better for them (maybe you can be flexible). Ask them if they like the agency they are working for? If not they will most likely leave soon and you will have an indication about how good the agency is.
I schedule the care givers when the work load is greatest. For me it’s the AM. It’s a lot of work getting my wife up and out of bed in the morning. I also give them some time each shift to be social. It's a lot harder for a care giver to leave if they have formed a relationship with you and you have shown how much you appreciate them. I always thank the person for all they do for us at the end of each shift. I don’t care what the agency policy is I give Birthday and Christmas gifts directly to the care givers.
I address small problems with the care givers. For example, putting thing away in the wrong place. Big ones like doing something unsafe go directly to the agency. For example, sitting in their car smoking while my wife is taking her shower.
I have found texting to be a problem. Make sure the agency knows this. My policy is the care giver can have the cell phone on them for emergencies but phone conversations need to be kept short 1 to 2 minutes. If they abuse this the phone must be kept in their car. Even if the care giver is just standing by waiting for my wife to complete something I don’t want the focus on them texting. If they do the quality of care is affected.
This is mostly trial and error but don’t feel locked to and agency. I did and it cost me a lot of money, time and grief.
The pay is LOUSY. That's probably the worst side of caregiving. It was a second income for us, and while at the time we desperately needed it, it was truly lousy. AND I only got one 50 cent per hour raise in 2 years. This was typical, as the turnover rate for a 2 year employee base was close to 80%. My clients family "tipped" me, regularly, and that is probably the only reason I could stay on. I also worked another PT job, and make a lot more there.....Caregving is hard on the body and spirit. I personally hastened my own health and required 2 major back surgeries a couple of years after I quit. (My client went into an ALF). My 2nd experience with trying to do caregiving--I lasted one day at one job (client gave me a black eye) and 1 day at the 2nd one (client tried to sexually assault me). I then quit the biz altogether and worked elsewhere.
Private pay--yes, you'll pay a lot more, but you can be pickier about who works and how many hours. I could NOT work over 32 hrs or they had to pay for health insurance...as a private care, I could have worked 50 hours, straight pay.
If you simply can't afford private care ( and most people cannot) keep trying with the agencies. Ask for someone who is older and more experienced and just keep on hoping. My client had been through 3 caregivers in the few weeks before I met her. I realize now (9 years after I began working for her) that we were both truly blessed through this relationship. I do wish you luck. This is hard and I know firsthand how hard it can be.
As someone previously commented, many of the workers work for other agencies because work is based on client demand and if your client passes away or reduces hours for whatever reason you're out of work. It's then incumbent upon the agency to find another client for the worker. Sometimes this is easily done, sometimes it's not and there may be a break in work. This is when we lose our workers typically. Therein lies the challenge for most companies--keeping steady work for staff. Given the nature of the business it is not always possible.
At my care home finding reliable workers has never been a problem. I don't have the turnover that my home care office experiences. However, in both cases workers are always paid and treated well.
Ironically, the one we have her for is named Joy as well. :)
That being said, not many caregivers are capable enough to take care of a person with Alzheimer's. When we started going through a lot of caregivers, that was the issue: they weren't prepared, or equipped, for my mother's condition. Good luck.