My mom was in nursing home in another state and I moved her in a nursing home near me. She then had to be admitted to a hospital because she started screaming and yelling all the time. At the hospital they found she also had UTI. All of them have been give her psychotic drugs to try and control her yelling. She has been transferred to a psych inpatient facility to try and get the screaming under control. More new psychotic medication. Even one that was just on the news back in May regarding the manufacturer advising providers to use it for dementia patients, even though it was not labeled for that and kills more elderlys with dementia.
What is wrong with these facilities? What happened to treating Dementia? Why are they all jumping to psychotic medication?
Absolutely everything Chimonger wrote is gospel. Take it to the bank.
Knowing what I do now (which is still too little), I would INSIST on a low dose antibiotic immediately since she has had recurrent UTI's. Any infection can cause mental changes in the elderly -UTI's are one of the most common and I think recurrent ones cause mental degradation and that people get to a point where they don't come all the way back anymore even after treatment. And you need to know even antibiotics could cause some hallucinations (Cipro is one of them). I'm not sure how effective it really is, but adding daily cranberry juice or d-mannose too-couldn't hurt to help UTI's.
I would avoid other 'demetia' meds for as long as possible. Mom couldn't sleep with Aricept -pretty common I've found, but amazingly I've heard doctors say they've never heard of it causing that problem. Every one of the other meds doctors put her on caused additional problems or exacerbated the behavior they were prescribed for. Every Single One Of Them! Seroquel & many others caused hallucinations. Another caused Parkinson-like shaking. And etc, etc.
Vision problems can also cause problems with hallucinating. See Charles Bonnet Syndrome.
I'd very gently try to explain to her that an infection or other is causing her to see these visions and that you understand how real they seem. They're probably scaring her to pieces. Mom called me once wailing that my brother was there with her and he wouldn't talk to her. Of course he wasn't there. She coped better after she understood something was causing it -she wasn't just going crazy.
I feel for everyone here. Been there, done that and completely frustrated with no adequate answers or direction. Until something is relevant is found we're just all left grasping at any available straw to try and help our loved ones (and ourselves as caregivers). Dementia is not normal aging -it's a brain disease whose cause hasn't been figured out.
Try the low dose antibiotics, cranberry juice and talking to your mom about the visions (hallucinations) to try to make them less disturbing for her. I will pray for good luck to you and everyone else on this helpful site and for hope of a medical breakthrough for this devastating condition.
I agree--I have witnessed far too much guessing. Unfortunately, too often, that's the best they can do.
There are so many possiblities as to what is causing "dementia" like you describe.
Could be UTI, TIA's, malabsorptoin of nutrients, odd adverse reactions to whatever meds she is taking, lack of adequate probiotics in her digestive system [especially after so much antibiotics!], It might be they are just trying to work things out in their head, and it's taking a circuitous route.
...many, many things.
They make their best, educated guesses...some are more educated and "on the beam" than others.
Some believe an elder seeing dead loved ones, is seeing them because the "curtain between this world and the next" has thinned, from age and infirmity.
Some have asked the elder to describe any conversations they had.
[[denying it's real, means nothing to the elder, and can add to aggitation]].
By encouraging them to discuss it, in detail, some will suddenly realize it's not "real",
or they may come up with details that lend credence to that belief.
Bottom line, as long as it doesn't cause them to become more aggitated,
if it seems to be helping, let them talk about it, see where the conversation goes; within their confusion might be clues to the confusion.
In my experience, it has always seemed, no matter how altered the mental state, there are some tiny bits that still try to convey their wants/needs.
IT can get tricky to tell what, though, unless the caregivers know the person some.
One Gma had Alzheimers, and nurses caring for her adamantly said she was incapable of carrying a conversation.
Yet, family knew her and her history, could carry conversatons--not normal ones, but in fragmented bits as her mind drifted from one bit to another.
One of my sisters demonstrated that for one of her nurses, who was flabberghasted, since Gma had not been talking with staff at all!
Somewhere in their minds, they know things are haywire, do not like it, and are frightened.
If we could just find the right tools to reliably and safely help them!!
1. UTI's in elderly can cause marked mental/emotional imbalance, as their body chemistry fluctuates to handle an infection, or pain.
1-B. Often enough, suspected UTI's are really muscle spasms in the bladder.
2. Moving an elderly person, even as young as in their 60's, can be so difficult, gets them confused. The older and more frail, the greater the confusion and difficulty coping.
3. Too often,stressed facilities staff faced with keeping residents calm, will grasp at telling Docs the elder is behaving in ways that '..might respond to psych drugs, please prescribe something...elder is riling up other residents...etc....'
4. Over-worked Docs fail to think about situation adequately before knee-jerk prescribing those.
5. Commonly, elders are on LOTS of meds, which can interact, causing adverse reactions, but stressed people fail to think in those terms, in timely manner.
5. Even if only ONE medication, elders can have adverse reactions.
6. TOO OFTEN, there's over-worked, stressed staff, and no one paying adequate attention to the elders, to realize when an adverse reaction is happening, much less from psych drugs.
7. Industry at large, has difficulty recognizing adverse reactions, unless it happens immediately upon giving a med.
8. A psych med ordered when person is mentally unstable during an infection, may have those behaviors controlled during that time, then, when infection clears, the no-longer-needed psych meds keep being given as if still needed; none thinking to re-evaluate, discontinue or adjust.
9. An elder who has gone into psych-land, with or without psych meds, can have a harder time regaining presence of mind, and can be more easily upset with ensuing ills, med chnges, moves, visitors, etc.
10. Psych meds can be a godsend, but, can be difficult to find just the right one[s], get them to work reliably very long, can be unpredictable; the more meds, the tougher it is to sort it out.
It is important to avoid loading a frail elder [even those who do not appear frail], with too many issues at once.
It is VERY unfortunate when multiple things happen in short-order.
There needs to be other opinons found, for your elder!
UNfortunately, if she is moved again, the liklihood the condition can be compounded, worsened, increases.
It can take significant time, sometimes if ever, for frail elders who suffered mental imbalance, to recover their mind, with or without psych meds.
Even middle-aged persons, prescribed and supposedly well-monitored, have great difficulty.
[[just some things observed, working in nursing homes, hospice, and elder care]]
I really hope you can find a good resolution for this.
It is heart-wrenching, difficult to handle from anyone's perspective, no matter how well trained or how well-equipped.
{{hugs}}
Peghello, so sorry that happen to your mom but glad u were able to give her some peace of mind, body n soul before she passed. Sorry for your loss. You seem to have been a very great n loving caregiver n you did what was best for her. Your mom is at peace n I hope u r able to move on with your life while u keep her in your heart. Sending cyber hugs to you n your sister.
I don't have any answers. Before the fall I was trying to get her doctor to stop some of the meds and it did seem to be helping. There is no question that she needed something, but what.....well, I'm clueless. Why do the elderly have such horrid mental changes from infections (UTI's, etc.)? Why are physicians relying so heavily on antipsychotics & antidepressants when there are so many risks, they can cause permanent damage, and adverse reactions are frequent? I suppose mostly because they don't have a clue what else to do.
I'm sorry I don't have anything to offer. Dementia is just a godawful nightmare for everyone involved and we just need more research to find what is causing it and how to effectively treat it because we sure don't have anything at present.
I know with my mom she had LBD they prescribed meds that would get her to sleep at night..more for me to get rest. But all those they tried...did not work, gave her the adverse reaction. So be careful when administering any medications for Dementia patients. I had to find out on my own why it wasn't working...I did research on the internet about dementia and medications. Especially the antiphsyc drugs. The only thing I can tell you ..is do your research. Don't always rely on what health care providers offer you....you know what works with your loved one and if something doesn't work. Or upsets them...take them off the meds. I had P.O.A. I had the authority to make those decisions for my mom. Find out what your rights are. Its such a sad disease and hurts to see so many affected by it. I hope you find the right answers..God Bless.
this has been a nightmare.....even when she was in the hospital they would call me at night and say...'your mother is very agitated, would you come and be with her to calm her down?' The point is that nothing can calm her down. she is terrified and she still knows enough to know that she doesnt know much anymore. her would is closing in on her and i feel like no one is there to help her. i go and sit with her each day but i am the only relative (no siblings, no husband or children, etc.) and i work full time and i am not of the personality that can just sit with someone. THAT is why i sent her there.....for caring and compassionate care, even to the end. the nurses are kind and loving but the 'philosophy' of the place and the upper management seems to be....'be a happy little old lady and get along and be quite...'
last night realy was one of the worst nights of my life. i called Hospice and they will see if they can intervene......is this sort of like Mary and Joseph? no room at the inn? 'go back to the stable where no one will see you...to have your moment of human experience with life and death.