My husband has Alz.i applied for Medicaid to get in home help when I am at work.
I received a letter today that I do not understand . It states his request for benefits is pending until all assets over 2,000 is transferred from him to his wife. We have joint bank accounts are they saying I have to take all our money and put in my name only.
Now if you are younger spouse and still working and have a pretty good income, the state's MMNA formula may show you do not need additional income but in general the CS always wants to file to try to get MMNA.
But you need to understand that for the CS (community spouse), the state does NOT expect you to become impoverished for hubby to receive care through Medicaid. In general, the CS is allowed $ 113,000.00 in nonexempt assets (can vary by state) but they have to be in your - the CS's - name. Understand? Now probably - my best guess - hubby has a life insurance policy with a cash value built up (lets say it has 20K cash value) and then hubby & you have a joint savings account with 30K in it. So hubs has 15K in assets from savings (50%/50%) & his 20K from the insurance policy in his name & his ownership, so hubs is 33 K over the allowed 2K in assets (20K + 15 + = 35K - 2K allowed). You need to get the insurance changed to your ownership & then open your own savings account so that the 30K in savings is totally yours. Understand?
As an aside, the whole community spouse situation can be totally sticky and you need to do whatever to ensure your own financial security as you could outlive hubs for many many years (my mom has so far outlived my dad by almost 30 years). What often happens for those who spouse goes into a NH on medicaid, is that the CS does NOT apply for MMNA - monthly maintenance needs allowance.
Under MMNA, if the CS needs hubby's income (SS or retirement) which is supposed to go to the NH as hubs Medicaid required co-pay, to really make ends meet then the CS can file to get MMNA. The MMNA is available but you have to apply for it otherwise all his monthly income is paid to the NH. You don't want that to be the case for you as you are the CS & you need that income to live on. The states have a whole formula on what the MMNA is supposed to be - like for my mom's state it is $ 2,200.00 max that can be diverted to MMNA which could mean the NH gets zero co-pay as all goes to the spouse for MMNA. But you have to apply for the MMNA!
If I were a CS, i would definitely go to see an elder law attorney as to how to best structure all this so that you are in the best long-term financial situation for yourself. You want to make sure that however your assets are set up are such that if something happens to you, that it doesn't jeopardize hubby's Medicaid. the biggest single mistake that couples do is make each other their beneficiary of each others life insurance policy but if 1 of them is on Medicaid you don't want that. If hubby is needing care now, it eventually will be the situation where he will need a higher level of care like in a NH, so you want to plan for that & in a way that enables you not to become impoverished yourself. Good luck.