I've noticed quite a few questions and answers regarding what to do when having been accused of elder abuse. However, since the reporter of such elder abuse is "supposed" to be confidential, exactly how in the heck can someone, like me, fight against such an allegation? Sorry, but I'm confused!
The best thing you can do now is deal with the accusation and ensuing questions from APS or whatever authorities are involved. Be honest and provide as much detail as possible, and be polite and helpful to the investigators.