Dad is 90 with dementia in assisted living. Sundowners is getting him up several times a night. He gets dressed and thinks he has to go somewhere. Facility wants to medicate him, dr says seroquil. FDA says no to that med for elderly with dementia. Doubles mortality rate and stoke. Suggestions or experience? Can't take Benedryl because of prostate issue, and melatonin not option either. Help?
Carol
Obviously this is harder to do if you are the sole caregiver in a home situation, but perhaps there's something to be gained from knowing that.
Also, SAD lights help some people with sundowning. These lights combined with what was already suggested (pulling the shades down before dark) may help some people.
Keep sending out ideas about what works. This is something that can be a huge problem for caregivers in any setting.
Carol
BEWARE OF BRAIN DEAD DOCTORS !!!!!!
Change PCP now
For the past year, he's slept a lot more consistently at night and his appetite is much better (he needed to gain weight). He's also on Celexa (Citalopram) which is known for its calming anti-depressive effects. He's doing well with these meds.