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He had 2 strokes so he has poor mobility, plus vascular dementia. He is not taking verbal or visual directions. My parents both want to remain at home. Are there smallish portable lifts? I am the sole caregiver.
Thank you for the suggestions. We have grab bars, etc. We even now have a chair-lift installed. The issue is my father has times when he doesn't know how to stand or is unable to take directions. Pivoting to transfer can be quite difficult. At times he doesn't even know what his hands are. He'll hallucinate. His vision is such, at times, that he can't see things that are there, or he just can't make sense of what he sees. His brain will just turn off, so to speak. He'll be OK getting into the bathroom at times, then, at times, can't get back up. His state of mind and ability fluctuate. (He has a catheter, plus he uses adult diapers incase he has accidents or the catheter leaks.) A small lift that a caregiver could operate without the "patient's" assistance would be helpful, not just for toileting, but for bed and chairs. (We use a transport chair with occasional walker use when he's able.) There are many options online, but I was hopeful someone would have experience with lifts and could offer advice. Putting him in a care-center is not an option. (Today has been a good day -- last night, not so much.)
There are many kinds of lifts out there (try googling, something like "small portable patient lifts"), but the difficulty is that they are expensive and fussy to use in a home setting. Youtube is another great place to look, both for demos of various lifts but also for training videos on patient transfers.
I'm reaching this point with my mom now too, and while I had initially explored using a lift I've been reluctant to make that transition. Caring for someone at home with that level of disability is a whole lot more difficult and I'm not sure whether it would be the best choice for either of us.
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's condition. I know you are doing everything you can to help him. After my dad's stroke, he started to wear adult men's Depends products. He didn't seem to mind because the new styles are more like underwear. It was more like a backup system. I would look into buying a bedside portable toilet and commode chair to transfer him to the toilet. I had also installed grab bars in the bathroom he mainly used. I know its very difficult to see our parents in this condition. I hope these suggestions work for your dad.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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We have grab bars, etc. We even now have a chair-lift installed. The issue is my father has times when he doesn't know how to stand or is unable to take directions. Pivoting to transfer can be quite difficult. At times he doesn't even know what his hands are. He'll hallucinate. His vision is such, at times, that he can't see things that are there, or he just can't make sense of what he sees. His brain will just turn off, so to speak. He'll be OK getting into the bathroom at times, then, at times, can't get back up. His state of mind and ability fluctuate.
(He has a catheter, plus he uses adult diapers incase he has accidents or the catheter leaks.)
A small lift that a caregiver could operate without the "patient's" assistance would be helpful, not just for toileting, but for bed and chairs. (We use a transport chair with occasional walker use when he's able.) There are many options online, but I was hopeful someone would have experience with lifts and could offer advice.
Putting him in a care-center is not an option.
(Today has been a good day -- last night, not so much.)
I'm reaching this point with my mom now too, and while I had initially explored using a lift I've been reluctant to make that transition. Caring for someone at home with that level of disability is a whole lot more difficult and I'm not sure whether it would be the best choice for either of us.
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's condition. I know you are doing everything you can to help him. After my dad's stroke, he started to wear adult men's Depends products. He didn't seem to mind because the new styles are more like underwear. It was more like a backup system. I would look into buying a bedside portable toilet and commode chair to transfer him to the toilet. I had also installed grab bars in the bathroom he mainly used. I know its very difficult to see our parents in this condition. I hope these suggestions work for your dad.