I don't know if I'm making more of this than it is but my FIL is always putting his hand on my lower back and rubbing it. He also rubs the side of my face and pushes my hair away from my face. I almost feel like I've taken the place of his wife in his mind since she passed away suddenly 3 months ago. He has Alzheimers so probably doesn't think this is inappropriate and maybe it's not but it makes me so uncomfortable. I don't want to scold him for doing this, but what else should I do?
Do you have pets in the house? Maybe a small dog or cat even a rabbit might give him something to cuddle. His behaviour may simply be affection and gratitude for your care. Was he demonstative before his wife died?
I did have a gentleman client who was so very nice. we took walks almost everyday. as we walked he would talk about how much he and his wife would walk on the beach when they were young and lived in FL..
he actually tried to kiss me a few times ! it was creep but cute.... he started giving me gifts that were once belonged her .. I would give them back to his kids of course.. but they had to tell him that it was inappropriate for his actions toward me... after that if I didn't come one day .he would say that he thought I didn't like him any more... the whole thing was kinda cute.
Im having more of problem with the way my mother grabs my arms or where ever when I lift her from bed to commode to wheelchair.. I realize she is afraid of falling but so many times a day and everyday ,,Its beginning to grate on my nerves.. and I hate that I feel that way...