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Does your father understand that a financial POA doesn't take effect immediately? It's only a "just in case" something happens to him. He retains full control until declared incompetent. In our state, we had to have 2 doctors sign off that mom was incompetent before we could take control.
If this does happen, would he rather have you in charge of his money or some stranger appointed by the courts?
CBA: whenever you address "end of life issues" it becomes very unsettling to seniors...although, I wish they'd understand that it is not much fun for the caregiver either! My friend's father wants her to handle their estate after their passing, but refuses to write a will. He wants her to figure out everything after they are gone. She has 6 brothers and sisters. Can you imagine what life will be like for her trying to divide up everything equitably? Do your parents fully understand what a POA does? Do they know that they need both a medical and a financial POA? If they become incapacitated, and have not given a family member their POA, then other people will be making those decisions for them. If they become mentally incompetent, they cannot even sign a POA and, again, their fates are in "strangers" hands. Good luck...this is never any fun.
Instead of POA, ask your dad if he'll just put your name on their bank account with them. He keeps control of the checkbook etc. but in case of an emergency you can still act on his behalf.
My Father and Mother made me the executor of their estate and have recently asked me to give them some advice on how to invest their money in order to make more income. So I think they trust me and know that I would not deceive me but I do think there is a "control" factor. My father basically believes that we can deal with the courts and legal system to work it out instead of a POA. He seems to be getting more angry about things that are just advice on things he used to and still does basically handle. I need to really watch what I say in a casual way...thanks for your input.
People from our parent's generation went through the depression and saw fortunes disappear when they trusted banks and other institutions. Really, giving a POA to anyone IS giving up control and trusting, without question, that someone will take care of your life for you. Or they may be superstitious and think that if they make these arrangements, it means the end of their life. If a parent has reason to believe that a family member will not represent them well, they have every right to refuse. A POA is a practical measure, but you really need to find out why they are so hesitant.
did u ask ur father why he doesnt want u to have it ? you should ask him who does he rather be a poa ? there could be a reason why he doesnt want you to handle it .
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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If this does happen, would he rather have you in charge of his money or some stranger appointed by the courts?
Do your parents fully understand what a POA does? Do they know that they need both a medical and a financial POA? If they become incapacitated, and have not given a family member their POA, then other people will be making those decisions for them. If they become mentally incompetent, they cannot even sign a POA and, again, their fates are in "strangers" hands.
Good luck...this is never any fun.
Or they may be superstitious and think that if they make these arrangements, it means the end of their life.
If a parent has reason to believe that a family member will not represent them well, they have every right to refuse.
A POA is a practical measure, but you really need to find out why they are so hesitant.