Earlier this year we planned to relocate my 83 year old parents across the country to live with me for the short-term, and in the longer term we would move them into an assisted living facility as their health declines. At the last minute, my father refused to sell their house and move and decided to stay put. On the other hand, my mom willingly relocated and is currently living with me. My father's health is okay but I think he is showing signs of early dementia but he also refuses to go to the doctor. We are really stuck on what we should do--we've been trying to honor his wishes but also know he is a very difficult and stubborn individual.