Is there something you are doing to protect your assets (if you become sick or disabled)?
There are SO many stories about people who have worked hard, only to have their hard-earned money "spent down" for healthcare.
Have you learned anything from these stories? Are you doing anything different? Buying gold and silver and burying it? (haha) Giving money to charity?
I'm not saying people shouldn't pay somewhat for healthcare. I'm just wondering if anyone has had the foresight to prevent their entire life savings from dwindling away to.....nothing.
Any replies are appreciated, even links to discussions on here that I might have missed.
Thank you!
I would be quit upset if I had to pay for someone's care knowing they had multi-millions assets and found some way to hiding these assets from Medicaid.
I am so thankful that Medicaid is there to help the elders. Otherwise many adult children, even adult grandchildren, would need to quit their job to take a shift to care for an elder, thus their own savings are gone, and the circle just keeps going around and around.
I'm not talking about millions of dollars, or cheating Medicaid. I'm talking about people who have worked hard their whole lives, paying taxes thereby funding Medicaid, only to have everything spent down.
Your kids do not want your house.
Most likely they do not want the dining set or the grandfather clock or the silver or china. They will sell the house, the dining set, clock and silver and dishes.
What they don't want is to take care of an elderly parent.
Use the money to provide yourself with good quality care, find a community that will allow you to transition from independent living to assisted to memory care if it is needed.
Do everyone a HUGE favor and draw up your papers sooner rather than later. Will, POA, Health Care POA and complete documentation as to what treatments you want and do not want. (CPR, Intubation, Feeding Tubes, can they be used temporary or long term or not at all)
Spend a bit of money pay a lawyer to draw up the paperwork, if you want use an irrevocable trust but this removes many decisions from you or at least you have to work with someone that has control over your finances.
If you are young enough now look into LTC (Long Term Care policy) This will cover a lot that your Health insurance does not cover nor Medicare.
Why would you expect the government and the taxpayers to provide for you if you have the money to care for yourself.
I would much rather have the ability to CHOOSE the type of care I get rather than having minimal care forced upon me.
I'm not sure what one's life savings are for, if not to spend on one's living expenses and care.
I grew up with the dictum that whatever money my parents saved was going to be spent by them, one way or the other. And that we needed to make our own way in the world and not rely on the idea of an "inheritance". While we were growing up, we watched nearby cousins become entangled in the machinations of an elderly and truly evil grandmother who sought to manipulate and control by means of threats and promises about her will. They all fell for her load of crap; when she died, there was no estate at all.
If you want your children to get ahead, give them an education and push them out of the nest.
I have found the Medicaid program to be very generous. She pays her Social Security and nothing else for this care....Previously we had to spend down to $2000 for HER assets and a fraction but fairly substantial amount of our former assets for MINE , as the "community spouse" (meaning I was still at home in the"community.") I was able to keep one vehicle and remain in the home, as well as all my income. We did not choose to buy long term care insurance prior to my wife's stroke in 2005.
I share your concern about working, saving, and then having to spend one's assets on healthcare before Medicaid "kicks in." Yet, in our case, had it not been for Medicaid, we would have lost lost our home, all of our liquid assets, car etc., and my income in order to "try" to pay for my wife's care.
Presently Medicaid continues to pay for her care, eight full years after they commenced to pay for it...she went onto it. That means that my fellow taxpayers have ponied up the tab for her care for 96 months. At current prices, that has saved me $114,500 every year for eight full years...(I note that Medicaid does not pay nearly that amount, but had I borne the cost on my own, it would have cost me that.)
One day, when both my spouse and I have died, Medicaid will seek to take ownership of our house, so as to partially mitigate the cost of her care all these years...The house currently has a market value of around $140,000. Seems like a fair trade to me.
You may wish to consider consulting a well-recommended elder care attorney.
Grace + Peace
Bob
Let me share real quick. My parents worked hard from age 16 – 70. Paid their taxes and into the system. Purchased Longterm care (thank God) Put hard earned money into Their Retirement.
Their 3 kids (I’m 1 of them) also worked hard and Mom and dad “planned” to pass along their worth to the kids when they passed. They owned 2 homes outright and a fair amount of savings.
That’s 104 Years combined of hard work, Sacrifices & Savings – LET T THAT SINK IN FOR A MINUTE ! {insert Jeopardy music here} https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=usVaPekFpbg
OK – 70 yo Dad had early onset Alzheimer’s and mom left her P/T job to care for Dad. Then Mom had a stroke. I left my career up north and moved to FL to care for them both. They had the “foresight” to have a trust.
Thankfully, They had the savings and the LTC insurance that gave me the means to care for them in Their Own Home with Love and Compassion. Had they not, They would have been in the “System” for the last seven years with what I am to understand is not very compassionate care.
And IMHO and also with first hand knowledge of others , Their LIFES savings would have been exhausted in 3 years. And had they not had the trust, Those 2 homes would have been gone …. Poof !
Also in my experience and 1st hand knowledge , the “system” would have diminished not only their life expectancy, but their quality of life.
Coincidence or not, I see people in the system diminish in direct proportion to their Available funds. You make your own conclusions but that’s mine.
Nowhere in the original question did I hear about “cheating” the system. Nor did I get the impression that it was geared towards the Very Wealthy – the Multi Millionaires.
Besides, The multi millionaires most likely handle caring for their elders entirely different .
The question I heard was geared more to people in MY Situation or maybe less fortunate.
In other words, “HOW NOT TO FALL INTO POVERTY WHEN AN ELDER FALLS ILL”
This Site is an invaluable resource for that question: As much as I don’t like attorneys, They are a necessary evil (no insult intended) to accomplish the goal of that question.
Medicaid has rules . I repeat : Medicaid has rules . And they change often. The rules are specifically designed to stop people from cheating as the 2nd poster so happily posted.
And an attorney – SPECIFICALLY an Elder Law Attorney can help navigate those rules. It’s Not Cheating if you follow the rules.
End of my story : My Parents got the best care available in Their Own Home from their own children. It was because of the Trust and the LTC that I was able to do this for them. 7 years later and the funds are almost exhausted .
Had they not had the trust, for me to draw upon the assets, they would have been in the system Sucking Up all your tax dollars with unsatisfactory care.
We [ I ] had a choice 7 years ago. I could have put them into the system and benefited from the trust which contained both their homes and a substantial amount of the retirement and savings and gone my merry way.
But I choose to care for them as they deserved and also planed for financially .
Note: They did NOT intend to burden me with caregiving. That was My Choice. Their intention was to provide the finances for me to hire out quality care.
Believe you /me…. Had they entered the system, The System would have spent far more $ on them then their assets provided back. And provide FAR FAR FAR less care . I’d hypothesize that 80% of the $ spent would have been wasted. Ya know, $25 for a band-aid , Wheel Chair invoice for $825 (I get them from amazon for 100 bucks), $2,000 for un-neccesary x-rays and God only knows how much $ for a 3 minute visit from a doctor.
So the answer to the question is really two-fold. 1) How to Protect The Assets from Medicaid 2) the intended consequences: How protecting the assets Benefits ALL. Including the tax payer .
Don’t mis-interpret my post to put down Medicaid: So many families have benefited from it. It satisfies a real need. But the system isn’t perfect by any stretch. It can be improved and I believe we are headed in that direction.
Medicaid, like so many other programs need serious reform and the WASTE is unimaginable. Please don’t pollute this thread with politics . All I’m saying is the system needs to be streamlined, simplified and more efficient.
My Suggestion to ALL… PLAN PLAN PLAN…. Currently the Medicaid lookback is 5 years . Its hard to predict what will happen in 5 years so do something NOW !
And use Credible sources to create your plan. Heard it from a friend is not Credible !
Caveat-Emptor !
I guess I feel differently than others here. I'm certainly willing to pay for my healthcare. And I don't have children, but if I did I'd want my years of work to not only go to healthcare, but also allow me to be able to leave something to help them in their future. Doing both needs planning.
If you can, spend a bit of money and get an estate lawyer to discuss your situation. You might be able to transfer ownership of your house to your children in advance, or give annual monetary gifts up to a certain amount to your children.
There is also long term care insurance, which actually is something I'm looking into now for myself. Some recommend it, others suggest putting the money you would have put towards LTC insurance premiums and put it in a separate account for future healthcare use.
Good luck!
Grace + Peace,
Bob
Question: What long term insurance company did your parents use? I'm looking into it for myself.
Another thing you can do one protecting money is to not carry cash at all, not one cent. Keep it all in the bank and even open an able account that's newly available to people on federal benefits. Be wary though if you're on Medicaid because of something happens to you they can grab your able account funds. What you can do to stop this from happening is periodically withdraw some money to pay some bills or get a car or something those funds were intended to cover. Another smart move is to make a preneed with your favorite funeral home and instead of paying the funeral home directly in case they go under is to pay on a preneed policy to an insurance company who provides those policies but make the funeral home the owner of the policy if you're on Medicaid.
Another smart move is to cover your assets in a legal will. A POD account is another smart move but make sure whatever moves you make you have a beneficiary somewhere especially on a life insurance policy. You want to do this while your competent and don't do it if you have dementia or Alzheimer's when you're not competent to make those decisions. A POD account is another smart move but make sure whatever moves you make you have a beneficiary somewhere especially on a life insurance policy. You want to do this while your competent and don't do it if you have dementia or Alzheimer's when you're not competent to make those decisions.
Be very wary after losing a spouse. I read somewhere that vultures often read the obits to see who lost someone and who they can target for personal gain. They also tend to drive around and scan the neighborhoods looking for signs of people in need of a little extra help. It's one thing to need extra help, another for people to take advantage of you so be very careful.
Have all of your affairs in order before you actually start needing help, because you never know who your caregivers will actually be. They may appear to be one way to you, when really they are actually a totally different person.
Do background checks on any potential caregiver you may need. Get as much personal info from them as absolutely possible and find out as much as you can about them before letting them into your life. One thing I found out is someone who knew my bio dad actually had eight different cases against her from the Department of taxes. I accidentally stumbled across this on the public record for that area where my dad lived because I currently have a pending estate where I have fiduciary duties and I just so happened to have found out someone may have taken advantage of my dad.
Be very careful before you reach a stage in your life where you become vulnerable because if you don't have all of your ducks in a row before then, you're sitting duck for vultures
Will
POA, medical and durable
Living will
Then, put property into trust. Must be done five years before any need arises. It doesn't cost that much to do.
Make a list of every asset, every asset!!!
Put your POA on every account you have including utilities. They can't even pay your light bill without a POA.
Assign your POA as POD (pay on death) on your bank accounts. If you don't, the money goes to probate and they can't pay the bills.
Put the POA on your social security as payee. This means they can monitor your Medicare and stop payments upon your death.
Make a list of all accounts and include passwords for those paid automatically. Include magazine subscriptions etc, everything that will use up funds.
Safe deposit boxes, all insurance papers, stocks, bonds, annuities. All of it.
Tell your family who is in charge and why. With their willingness to take on the duties, of course. Include any financial compensation in the conversation.
My list includes over 50 items that may apply including family pets. Start with the most crucial listed here.
I notice a large number of responses here that want to castigate anyone who wishes to avail themselves of the laws and perhaps save some of their hard-earned life savings for "extras" in their old age or even to pass on to the next generation. Would they take such a harsh position were you to ask them for tax advice to save taxes? In both cases you are (i) taking advantage of clearly legal options to save money and (ii) shifting costs to other taxpayers. Of course, you are free to pay more taxes than you are legally required to do, just as you are free to pay every dime of your life savings to nursing homes when there are legal ways to protect your assets (which is the point of my book!). Only you can decide which route to follow.
If you have substantial assets, in addition to your home, then you should consult a certified elder law attorney who knows about asset protection. It is possible to shelter your assets, but you need a knowledgeable attorney to do so. See www.nelf.org
There is some excellent information here! Websites I've never seen and thoughts I never would've come up with.
Again, thank you for sharing :)
1. Not all doctors take Medicaid. Not all doctors take Medicare. As both programs are reducing payments to providers, more and more doctors, therapists, etc. may opt-OUT of providing care to people on those programs. Lowest cost bidder is usually Medicaid provider in your area. My MIL is unable to find a good neurologist in her small city in Texas, and is looking at having to travel 70 miles each way to get better Parkinson's care. And the new neurologist has a 15 person waiting list - you only move up when somebody "leaves the practice" - i.e. dies or NH. Long wait with degenerative disease.
2. Your options for a Medicaid bed in a facility that you like, that "looks nice", is close to family or current neighborhood, or has openings when you need the care may be limited. Under the current proposed federal budget, there may not be Medicaid beds AT ALL in many facilities, including assisted living or other Medicaid waiver options. Make nice with your kiddos or check out your options before you need them.
3. I agree that preserving assets or making them last longer so that you have better options for care over the long term is an excellent idea. Planning to live for 20-30 years on your assets upon retirement and still be able to leave property to heirs? my lawyer's joking response to the best planning strategies to preserve assets was "don't get sick! OR die young with lots of paid-up whole life insurance OR get born to rich parents."
4. Your best resources include an elder care lawyer experienced with Medicaid in YOUR state, the documents in place like will, etc, family discussion of care needs and a real understanding of the cost of aging. But remember the analogy Mr. Heiser mentions: As with tax planning, strategies only survive the current legislative cycle as anything can change - many tax strategies didn't survive the budget reconciliations of recent years. And social security file and suspend loopholes are closed. Many of the Medicaid planning strategies will require a crystal ball or "wayback" time machine to implement 10 years in advance. Who knows what social programs will get funded in the current administration? Live cheaply, my friends.
The "American Dream" is no longer something to strive for, because what's the sense in working hard, buying property/houses & having money/investments if the government is going to take it all away to pay for Medicaid? My advice to anybody is to utilize all of your assets to pay for care in your home---if you have money, spend it. If you have a house or houses or property, take out a reverse mortgage & use the money to pay someone to take care of you in your own home. When all of that money is tapped out, you can then apply for Medicaid & go into a nursing home. Why let the government have unencumbered assets & a home that is free & clear? Use your assets for yourself. As long as you can prove that you spent the money on yourself, you've got no problems. If you're still well enough, go on vacations, take some cruises, do some house renovations. Spend that money DOWN DOWN DOWN. Enjoy your money/assets---you worked very hard to get them!!!
As a business owner, I see firsthand when families don't have sufficient financial resources to care for their loved ones.
Quite bitching about how wealthy people benefit from the tax laws. You can't do anything about those provisions. However, many of you can get more serious about saving for your advanced years.
I apologize in advance for offending people.
During one discussion we were talking about health care, and she said so many of her clients are terrified that Medicaid [not Medicare] would be cut, as her clients either have very elder parents who are residing in nursing homes using Medicaid, or her clients are seeing down the road where they don't have enough money to private pay, and what if Medicaid is reduced.
And the media isn't paying that much attention to the seniors and what would happen to them. Sadly not everyone had saved for those "rainy days". Come on AARP, put some ads on TV as a wake-up call before it gets out of control, unless they are waiting to see what the U.S. Senate provides.
Yes, it is a stick shock of the cost of aging here in the States. When I priced out Independent Living/Assisted Living for my Dad, and long-term care for my Mom, I was a deer in headlights.
Unless others have been in our shoes caregiving, they have zero idea what it is like and the huge cost involved.
This country can't get itself to digest the larger issue----either we want as a society to pay for the care our elders need or we don't. You can't say out of one side of your mouth that your expenses should be shifted to taxpayers, but if someone suggests that taxes should be higher to offset that cost, they should be accused of treason. Is it okay for the rich to use tax loopholes not to pay their fair share? It might be legal, but it's not right. Frankly, I make a fairly good income and other than my mortgage interest, I have no shelters---I pay a ton in taxes.
And even more frankly, I think we should all pay more taxes so that everyone (rich and poor) has access to home-health, assisted living and nursing home care without having to go through a means-based program like Medicaid. I have spent the last eight years caring for my parents in my home, using my children and husband as care takers. And not because they didn't have means---they had plenty of money. I just didn't have the heart to place them into a care facility until I absolutely had to. I'm lucky that they can afford the care, at least for the next few years. If we are not going to swallow more taxes, I think that the Community Spouse Resource Allowance & Medicaid Estate Recovery provisions are more than a fair way for folks to keep their homes and maintain their existence during their lifetimes.