when they can take care of themseves but will not. no matter if u have an accident n can no longer do everything for them but they still expect you too no matter your pain n surcomstances. they think its funny to make u hurt to care for them they brag to their friends about how they make u wait on them hand n foot.
If they are depressed, they are not lazy, just can't get going. If they are demented, they can't help it, or meds need to be changed. If they are simply playing games with you, and you are the pawn--what the heck is the matter with you? Let it out, Adbrook. We care:))) Hugs