Mom & I have lived under the same roof for 11yrs. I live in an apt on the second floor. I’ve been here for her if needed & her for me. I’ve cared for her after knee replacement surgery. Was the only one @ the hospital during that surgery. I’ve done the lawn care, pet care, home repairs, found reputable people for AC & appliance repairs or to do repairs I couldn’t do, & so much more. I have 3 other siblings. My Dad lives near by. Parents are divorced. Now that mom is in NH, everyone has come out of the woodwork. They’ve taken control of everything associated w mom’s care & OUR home. We built this home together. Nobody has put more time, effort & care into the home or for mom than me. Dad & siblings now make decisions about the home & mom’s care but don’t include me. I end up getting blindsided their decisions. I find out about them after they have been made. Now mom is on board w them. Many of their decisions directly affect me in a negative way. I have zero input on these decisions. I end up suffering the consequences. Found out because they think I wouldn’t agree w their decisions, they just leave me out. I’ve been the black sheep/scapegoat all my life. I’m disabled & have several chronic health issues. Stress from their actions is making me physically, emotionally & mentally ill. It causes my symptoms to flare. I’ve had migraines almost daily for the past couple of months. I’m bed ridden @ times. I’m not financially able to buy my own place & move. I’ve tried talking to my mom, dad & siblings about everything. I don’t get anywhere. I’m tired of being sick all the time. Tired of worrying about what they will do next. Everyone, but me, is worried about their inheritance. I know the harsh realities associated w Medicaid. Any advice??? I’ve been praying about!! Thank you!!