Where can I turn for advice? My parents will not stop supporting their 37 year old son and his family. He lives in one of their homes, doesn't pay the rent,,today a $1700.00 utility bill,,car insurance,,tens of thousands of dollars in borrow and pay back,,only verbal agreements and no legal recourse. I am ready to lose my mind, and am so angry that they cannot put an end to the BS. I am ashamed to admit that I sometimes really hate them all and wished I lived on the other side of the country. They won't listen and I am getting tired of talking.
I know several families who have one kid out of the group who can't get it together no matter what their age. The parents just can't say no, it's a habit, they feel sorry for them, they're In denial, etc. Usually the sibs are livid but can't do anything because their parents may be playing favorites but it isn't illegal. Tell us more about your parents.
Is moving to the other side of the country an option?