I live on the east coast and my parents are on the west coast. I have not had a good relationship with my dad for a very long time. My parents are 82 and 83. My dad was very upset with me when I left because the person I came with he did not like. Now the past year I have been going through hell. I want them to come out here so I can take care of them. I have a good job and many responsiblites that I have to take care of. I try to talk to him and all he does is yell and verbaly abuse me. He said he is going to change the phone number and I won't be able to speak to my mom. there is so much going on I can't write it all. I am wiped out. I really don't even know it I did go back there if he would be happy. I see that my mom is more with drawn. So she does not have a lot to say. I can't call their doctors because my dad won't give me any info. This is not even half of it. Please, I need some feed back. Thank you.