My mom is in a good mood but you can never know how long that will last. All of a sudden she is this mad person that says I never told her something and why do I treat her this way ...how do I deal with this? No there is no one else that can come to the house. Can’t walk, can’t see, painful but I am gaining weight and have fibro so I’m hurting too.
Mom has care needs. As noted above, you can't do this on your own." Mom won't allow"?
Why are her wishes/desires/ requirements greater than yours?
Sorry you're in this situation, Oldlady2!