My mom is in a good mood but you can never know how long that will last. All of a sudden she is this mad person that says I never told her something and why do I treat her this way ...how do I deal with this? No there is no one else that can come to the house. Can’t walk, can’t see, painful but I am gaining weight and have fibro so I’m hurting too.
Sorry you're in this situation, Oldlady2!
Mom has care needs. As noted above, you can't do this on your own." Mom won't allow"?
Why are her wishes/desires/ requirements greater than yours?