Sharon , myself , and a whole bunch of home care people are tending to aunt ednas needs so she can be safe and content in her IL apartment as opposed to being moved to AL . grandson Charles is living in ednas shack and planning to inherite it but not only wont visit edna but refused my bringing her by to see him. Charles is either going to get on board here or a whole bunch of frowning faces are going to turn their gaze in his direction. im the " unibomber " of lighting fires under peoples azzes. end of life care is a time to call in favors, threaten , blackmail , coerce, whatever it takes .
I think all you people involved in elder care are going to be enriched by the experience , its just hard to see when your spread thin and worried about your own future.
my pc blew up and ate years of pics on the same day that I got the call that the hepc virus was dead. I took it as a sign to move forward, screw living in the past..
its a freakin new day..
guess i should mind my own business, its just that charles doesnt understand that dementia is a terminal condition and id hate for him to regret not visiting her after shes gone. i shouldnt be such a judgemental jerk and ill work on that..