Thank you all cant say no more I'm finished know for a fact cannot be caregiver for my mother to much has happened horrible night horrible day today do not even want to open blinds sun is to bright for me. Don't worry as each day goes by my messages will be shorter and shorter till I don't 100 percent have nothing to say now husband and I will be going to split up ok with that life is short he deserves better .Thank you all for support