the dad says mean and hurtful things about me when he thinks im not around but when I feed him he is very nice to me and mom is combative at times and does not ever want to be changed but I have to change her she wets her pants all the time as well as the bed, dad gets mad when i change her says she doesnt need any help they hardly sleep which means neither do i
I used to feel it was disgraceful when I would see what I perceived to be overmedicated elderly people, but now I wonder why heavier medication is not used more often. Are your elders on antidpressant and anti anxiety meds? Or maybe you? Thank goodness for modern science or maybe we can blame them for artificially extended lives. It is not all about them. Too many times I have seen the caregivers get sick and die and the cared for ones keep living. then they have to go to some type of care facility. Pee and Poop everywhere is a health hazard no one should have to live with.