I just went to the grocery store and bought a huge amount of groceries. Packed them out of the store, drove home, got everything he asked for (not much) came home, carried the groceries in myself. He was in bed. He heard me come in and first thing out of his mouth was "DID YOU GET MY ICE CREAM"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No hello, can I help, how was your trip, did you run into any trouble, Etc. etc. like he used to do.....It is like someone said he wouldn't care if I was a robot now. He is very mellow but the helpfulness is gone from him and it is me me me me..........Thanks, I needed this......HUGS
Big hugs to you. I know how you feel. It seems trivial, but it really isn't.