I go to my kids doctor and let her know what is happening with her patient and she don't care at all. Her excuse is to tell him go to therapy i say what. So what I did give her a report in what is happening with him and what my plan is to call APS and I did she probably scared cause I am getting her into trouble in not taking care of her patient and when family is asking for help she says tell him go therapy what will that do when he is a very sick man and has Dementia..Doctor tells that to my daughter we mad about that. This is the 2nd time I did this to her and she doesn't get it when we are asking for help. First kids Social worker she helped me out and got a behavioral specialist for me cause his doctor refuse to do that for us and she got introuble cause of kids sw for not helping family out when it comes to siblings under age of 12 years of age and wants there dad to get better. So now I called APS and she is in trouble again for not doing her job when we asking for help. I hate doctors who don't care about there patients.
I hope you are successful with the medications. Caregiving someone who is uncooperative, even someone you love, is extremely stressful. My heart goes out to you.
If he is not judged to be mentally incompetent then you cannot force him into a care center. But you can force him out of your house. THAT is what you should be telling APS. This man is going to be homeless. What can they do to help him?
The behavioral specialist that the social worker got for you -- how is that working out?
I hope you get satisfaction with APS.