So most of you no ive been taking care of FIL off and on for 3 yrs. the last 6mon. have been alot more I do everything for him now. you guys are the only ones i talk to other then family. this girl (and i do mean girl) looked at me and said I had no experience.
What she probably meant was "training".
Respect is a cornerstone of nursing.
This girl still has a lot to learn, that is if she is capable.
Your FIL is alive and well thanks to our devotion. You simply learnt the hard way, on the job.