i wonder why doctors do not check their hormones or depression , i have asked the doctor about her moods and she said it is her old age , i dont agree i think my mom is depressed and unhappy , my mother does not realize she just cant do what she used to, so i try to make her happy but she does not care for me , but she likes people who dont care about her ,and dont care for her , so do i let her go back to a bad situation of living but taking care of kids , she is 84 and very little and sick , it tears me up to see she dont want my help with nothing , i love her but she does not care for me , so what can i do to make her see she is being taken care and loved here , than to go where she is neglected and her money is taken from her , please help me for an answer , i have told the doctor to test her on her depression but she says nothing , my mom can be mean and then again she can be nice at times but mostly she dont want to be social with me , and i try to make conversation but ignores m