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YOU had a heart atttack? Oh, dear God. May our Lord hold you in the palm of his hand. Warmest wishes for a speedy recovery, Boni. Prayers comin' your way.
Boni, I know folks with stents and pacemakers and they do just fine. Here's hoping you do too!
I know first-hand what it is like to try to manage a loved one's care from icu. Not Easy! Let go and let the family handle it. They won't do it perfectly but it will be adequate. You take care of you.
Mom had a stent put in (and a pacemaker) probably ten years or more ago, Recovered just fine. She was 77 at the time. You will, too. She fell in love with her cardiologist, so you might want to be careful. ;) ;)
Boni, your mom is going to be okay. You have 2 siblings doing their best to take care of her. Please just concentrate on YOU at this time. It's very important to reach deep inside and know that you can handle this new. I've had surgery twice and both times, I knew that my family will step in to help mom. (I was so relieved that after coming back home after 3 months away, she had no bedsore.) So it's very important to go through this with your mind at ease about mom and that we will all pray for you both.
I will post a message to Ladee both here and by email. Please take care, Boni, because I really, really, really like you! {{{{HUGS}}}}
Prayers for you both - they don't keep you in the hospital very long so be careful when you get home not to just jump in "business as usual". Give yourself permission to recoup. Hang in there.
Boni.... I am so sorry to hear this... Book and Ismiami notified me.....thanks ladies.... as others have said, do not worry about mom..... she is being very well taken care of.... you have to focus on you now...... you have tons of love and prayers coming your way from all of us.....you are not doing mom a bit of good by not taking care of yourself right now..... please rest and do as you are told..... love you and lots of hugs, but no chocolate this time......someone will keep me updated if you cant... will come back to check on you.... thanks again Book and Ismiami.......
OMG. I used to pray for signs from God. When I got them, I told Him maybe a 2x4 wasn't necessary. Looks like you got the 2x4 message, too. Take it easy. Hugs.
Boni~Use this time to take care of you. You have no choice now that you are in hospital, LOL!!! Laughing aside...Godspeed on your recovery. Blessings to you!!
good luck to you boni, even tho you have a great attitude about caregiving , that doesnt make it any less stressful . i consider the self medicating i did during my moms last months an absolute necessity, to this day . its enough to fn kill ya at times .
Boni, this could happen to anybody here. Many of us are in the higher risk group because of our age. You did make me stop to think about what I can do to keep it from happening and what to do if it does happen. I'm thinking of you a lot, grateful that you made it to the hospital quickly.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
E.
This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
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I know first-hand what it is like to try to manage a loved one's care from icu. Not Easy! Let go and let the family handle it. They won't do it perfectly but it will be adequate. You take care of you.
I will post a message to Ladee both here and by email. Please take care, Boni, because I really, really, really like you! {{{{HUGS}}}}
Sounds like you are surrounded by good caring people. Smooth sailing. I will be thinking about you. Rest, rest, rest, and more rest.
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