My 60 year old brother has POA. He has been living with my mother almost his whole life. He only moved out for 4 years because I found him a place That was very reasonable. Then he moved back in with my mother. She didn't want him to, as she was starting to enjoy being alone. But she couldn't say no. My sister and I moved out of the house at the age of 20. Got married and raised familys. My brother has a short temper, and is very hard to live with. When my mother got into her late 70s, she used to call up my sister and I and cry how mean My brother could. He would yell at her, slam doors "breaking them" and things like these. My mother is very protective of us three kids. Loves us all the same and we love her. My dad died when we were teenagers. My sister and I took my brother aside and Told him enough is enough. He should be a man and get out on his own. But my mother would say, appartments are so exspensive these days for a single person. So she would protect him.
last year she fell and broke her hip. It was touch and go for a while but she made it through surgery and rehab. It was a very stressfull time for us all. Going back and forth to the hospital and rehab. My sister and I live 150 miles away round trip. My mother was doing very well. She even stated to drive again. We were encouraged. But one time my brother took her out to the store on a very windy day. She was getting into the car and he didn't hold the door for her. A gust of wind blew the door shut on her leg. She got staff infection and it went right to her hip. Thats when things got realy scarey.