I take care of my parents every weekend. I've been doing it for almost two years now. I dont get to spend much time with my husband. I don't mean to complain because I love my parents very much, but I miss my husband. He doen't come with me because he doen't feel comfortable at their house. They live 45 minutes away from us. My brothers stay overnight during the week. I feel like I got the short end of the stick because they are actually only spending a couple of hours a day with them while I'm there Sat. nite thru Monday til about 4:00. It's done a toll on our relationship too. We all do it because we care about them and we figure they did it for us all our lives now it's our turn. I'm just venting and it actually helps to know that there's other people going through it too. Sometimes I just need a break.