Mom..who lives me while waiting on her senior apartment to become available...expects me to do her paperwork 24//7. Shes mad because I said Not today...it's my day off....yet she kept chasing me with it..her check account doesn't match...I suggested its one check that didn't get deducted...we will look at Monday...she stomped off pouting...I need to set limits..this trying to make me feel guilty is getting tiresome....hubby and I took off today by ourselves....I know she's not happy...I refuse to carry this burden of guilt she tries to place on me....and yet it feels mean...and she pouts when I say no....help
If your Mom is going into senior apartments, can't she do her own laundry while living with you in the mean time? Can't she help with housekeeping? Or is life too confusing for her at this point in time?
So the saying goes.
Do you have your Mom's checking account on-line so that you can pull up her current checking statuses? If not, do so. I was never crazy about on-line banking, but since I had all of my parents financial stuff dumped into my lap, it is an easy look at what is happening with those accounts :)