Her 4 children agreed to be responsible for her 1 week at a time. One child works full time and hires a lady to stay with mother while she works [she spends every lunch hour with mother] One child works 4 1/2 hours three days a week and this week has the lady hired for 51 hours [overnight one night]. This lady is paid with mother's money. The other two children [one is semiretired, and one is retired] those two put their lives on hold and spend 24/7 with mom. I'm the retired one and I feel this is so unfair. Can someone help me with the bitterness I am suffering.
Or, even better, get Mother into a care center where all of you can visit her as loving children, not as stressed caregivers.
Is there any reason Mother must stay in her home?
Good luck! And do let us know how this works out!