I think I made a huge mistake agreeing to take Mom home early. It's only been 5 days and Sister has started the drama, Mom is treating me like crap, everything is my fault again and I'm stressed and miserable.
She treated me like gold while she was in NH. Now I'm thinking of running away from home. You all warned me. Lordy! I feel so stupid now!
I don't know how you want to handle this; you've done this longer and better than anyone I know. I guess the question comes down to, do you want to risk another coronary event. What does you doctor say you should be doing? I think that it's still time for you to be taking care pretty of just you, and get mom back into care. But that's just me. I wouldn't be taking care of someone who treated me like crap in the first place.
No one in their right mind wants to go back to a difficult reality after a nice long vacay. Probably why I never leave. I'd run away also.