I am scared to post here. I think my sister is on here too. Some of the comments that have been made seem like her. She is really very much internet savvy. So I guess I will read what you post and positively comment there. Anyway there is a new problem with sister but I can't post apparently. If I say anything then I will get a vile email from her. And I mean vile. It just upsets me so much that I shake and shake after these vile emails. My counselor said just preview her email first then if I don't want to read it, delete it. I would really like your opinion on this train wreck of a situation.
Block her from your email. Sticks and stones. She cannot hurt you. Bless you.
I agree with ladee I am sorry your safe respite has been compromised too...I hope there is an answer for you...
surely sister does not want to tip her hand that she knows who you are on here, and so many stories on here are so similar too, possibly you are still safe here, espeically if your personal messages don't reflect anything negative. on the other hand you are not being paranoid if they reall ARE out to get you....ultimately you have to decide what is really safe and what isn't when you share on line. Moderators will step in and help if anything gets too hairy in a question or dicussion forum if that helps any.
My little group is hardly intimidating (one tries to be but is ignored) we are just totally non-communicative. After therapy I understand they are passive/aggressive and narcissistic as well. Makes it very difficult to take care of a loved one.
My response to sibling who tries to intimidate in person; I thank her for her input with no further comment.
Hugs and best wishes.
This site is a place for us to vent and let off steam from the frustrations of caregiving. When someone you know is against you, it absolutely makes a big difference. You can no longer type - free flowing like before. Because you will always worry about what they would say about your comments. When you open yourself up here, and expose such deep emotions that you would never ever display to siblings, this site makes you very vulnerable to attacks. Because,in this site, you let your guard down and your heart open. Brandy, this has happened to me. I KNOW what it's like to be hurt like that. I struggled for a while trying to post on AC in the thread discussions and I just couldn't. So, you do what you have to do. Take care!