I take care of my Mom. She is qualified for nursing home care. I live with her. My sister has undercut my efforts with gossip. I have never done anything wrong. Others have been told that I abuse my mom, that I steal her money.... I have noticed that I am not being treated the same. An intervention specialist helped some but by the time I found out what had been done to me so many had the wrong impression. What else can I do but tolerate the effects of such devastating gossip.
I. Also believe they gossip and say bad things about you to make them look better since they aren't doing the hard work you are doing.
They have no idea what you are going through.
Sorry for your pain and don't let them keep you down. Hold you head up and know that you are a good person and doing your best.